Over the years, I’ve shared a lot about how I built a flexible lifestyle, became my own boss, and created a life that doesn’t revolve around work. But I realized I haven’t given a full behind-the-scenes look at what my actual daily life looks like in a very long time. If you’ve ever wondered how…
Over the years, I’ve shared a lot about how I built a flexible lifestyle, became my own boss, and created a life that doesn’t revolve around work. But I realized I haven’t given a full behind-the-scenes look at what my actual daily life looks like in a very long time.
If you’ve ever wondered how I spend my days, how much I work, what life looks like with a preschooler and an online business, or how I fit it all in without burning out – this article is for you.
I’m walking you through exactly what a typical day looks like for me right now – where we live, what our routine is like, how I balance business and being a parent, and even what I don’t do anymore.
What a “Typical” Weekday Looks Like
Our routine depends a lot on whether it’s a school day for our daughter or not. But here’s what a fairly normal weekday looks like for us while we’re in the Florida Keys (where we currently live and recently bought a home).
We usually wake up around 7 a.m., eat breakfast together (usually something easy like cereal, smoothies, and/or fruit), play a little, and then get ready for school.
After drop-off around 8 a.m., I shift into work mode – but how much I work depends on the day.
If the weather is nice, we take the boat out for a few hours. We love diving and lobstering. Sometimes we’ll go for a bike ride or a walk, too.
On other days, I spend that school-time block working on blogging business tasks: writing, brainstorming, updating articles, sending emails, and planning affiliate partnerships.
We pick up our daughter in the afternoon, and from that point on, we switch to full family time (I don’t work when my daughter is awake and at home).
We might:
- Go swimming
- Visit the playground or beach
- Stop by the library
- Ride bikes
Evenings are relaxed. We make dinner, go through our bedtime routine (books, bath, snuggles), and wind down together.
If it’s the weekend, I don’t work during the day at all (I may get some work done after she goes to sleep), and we spend the weekend doing family things like going to the beach, horseback riding at the local stable, or finding a family-friendly event nearby.
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How Much I Work (And How I Make It Work)
I try to only work when my daughter is at school. I don’t work when she’s awake and home. That’s a boundary I’ve set for myself, and it’s made a big difference in how present I feel.
She only started going to school about one year ago, and before that, we never had a babysitter or someone watch her other than one time. So, back then, I would only work at night when she was sleeping or during nap time.
Depending on the week, I might work:
- 20–40 hours if I’m feeling motivated and need to get work done
- As little as 0–5 hours when we’re traveling, spending time with family, or life feels extra busy
For weeks when I know I will not be able to get anything done, I try to work ahead as much as I can beforehand.
For example:
- I like to stay about one month ahead on blog posts.
- I batch-schedule tasks and content.
- I give my virtual assistant plenty of work in advance.
- I prep email newsletters and affiliate plans so they’re ready to go when I’m offline.
This way, when we take a trip or I just need a slower week, I don’t fall behind.
With all that being said, I am currently way behind in work. But that is not my normal!
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What I Actually Do When I Work
When I do sit down to work, I try to focus on tasks that make a difference or help me stay connected with my readers.
My typical work tasks include:
- Writing new blog content (like this!)
- Updating older posts for SEO or relevance
- Writing and scheduling my email newsletters
- Building or managing affiliate partnerships
- Brainstorming post ideas, collaborations, or course updates
- Replying to emails/comments and answering reader questions
I also spend time thinking about the big picture, where I want my business to go next, how I can better help my audience, and what I can automate or delegate to free up even more time.
My Blogging Workflow (And How I Batch Content)
Over the years, I’ve learned that batching my work is one of the best ways to stay consistent without burning out – especially now that I only work during preschool hours and take breaks when we’re traveling.
My content planning starts with a big list of blog post ideas. I’m always jotting down topic ideas based on reader questions (this blog post idea actually came from a recent email from a reader), side hustles I notice, affiliate partnerships I want to promote, financial questions that family and friends ask me, and things I’m personally interested in. I also keep an eye on what’s working well on Google and Pinterest or posts that could use a refresh.
Once I’ve picked a few topics to focus on, I’ll write the outline and then write the full piece of content all at once. I will then spend a whole day or even a whole week mainly just writing content.
When I’m in a good writing mood, I’ll draft a couple posts in one week – sometimes even five or more if I’m batching and we don’t have too much going on. I write everything myself, then go back to format, add images, send it to my proofreader for editing, and schedule. I usually schedule blog posts to go live 3–4 weeks out so that there’s always something lined up, even if I need to take time off.
I also assign work to my virtual assistant in advance – like making images for Pinterest, scheduling content to Facebook, and more. I like to batch-send work to my virtual assistant for the month so that I only have to think about it once and not waste time switching between work tasks.
When Things Don’t Go as Planned
Of course, life isn’t perfect – and I don’t want to paint a picture that it is.
Sometimes I sit down to write and get nothing done.
Sometimes I doomscroll and wonder where my day went (I really wish this didn’t happen as much as it does).
And yes, there have been days when we all get the stomach flu at the same time. Those are the days when everything else goes out the window and survival becomes the priority.
That’s just real life – and honestly, part of the positives of this lifestyle is that there’s room for it. I don’t have to call in sick to a boss or juggle emergency childcare. I can pause when I need to, and the business will still be there when I’m ready.
What I’ve Let Go Of
Over the past year or two, I’ve made an effort to create more time in my life.
That’s meant letting go of things like:
- Checking my email every hour
- Posting on Instagram regularly (I post just a couple of times a year now).
- Letting social media distract me from real life
I even deleted Pinterest, TikTok, and Twitter from my phone.
I’m also currently trying to no longer stay up late for work. I really love running my business, and it’s almost been like an addiction over the years, so it can be hard to have a good work-life balance. And that is why I would like to not work late at night anymore and preferably on the weekends as well.
Preferably, I’d like to have more set work hours where I only work while my daughter is at school, instead of it being scattered throughout the week.
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What I’ve Learned From Slowing Down
This season of life has taught me that:
- More work doesn’t always mean more results.
- The best ideas come when I have time to think.
- I don’t need to be everywhere or do everything.
- My business works better when I’m not burned out.
There’s nothing wrong with ambition, but I’ve found that having more free time in my schedule – time with my family, slow mornings, and quiet evenings – has been one of the best things I’ve created for myself.
Now, it didn’t happen by accident. It came from building income streams that give me flexibility, letting go of the urge to hustle constantly (I don’t feel this need anymore at all!), and building a business that supports my life – not one that controls it.
Frequently Asked Questions
Below are answers to common questions you may have.
Do you ever feel behind with blogging or business tasks?
Yes! I am actually currently writing this and way behind on work due to some changes in my life. Even with planning ahead, there are times I fall behind. Life happens – whether it’s a week of bad weather, getting sick, or just feeling tired. I’ve learned not to get down and to trust that things will balance out. One skipped week won’t ruin your business.
How do you plan content in advance?
I try to stay at least one month ahead on blog posts, email newsletters, and affiliate campaigns. I really don’t use too much to plan this – just a calendar and a Google Doc for most of it. I also give my virtual assistant tasks in advance so that things keep moving even when I’m offline.
Do you still work with a team or are you doing everything solo?
I keep things pretty simple, but I do have a small team. I have a virtual assistant who helps with graphics and scheduling. She also does a lot of day-to-day things like sharing new content that is published (that way, I don’t have to log into work every weekday). I write all of my own blog content and emails, but I batch my work so I can stay consistent without being overwhelmed. I also have a proofreader who is a HUGE help and saves me a ton of time. And I outsource other tasks, like managing the technical side of my website.
How do you come up with ideas for new blog posts?
Many ideas come from reader questions (like this post!), real-life conversations, or topics I’ve Googled myself. I also revisit older posts to see what could use a fresh spin or deeper dive. And I track seasonal trends and SEO data to guide what’s worth covering next. I keep a running idea list that I pull from when it’s time to write.
Is your blog still your full-time income?
Yes, it is! My income comes from affiliate marketing, digital products, ad revenue, and sponsored partnerships. I’ve set up my blog so it earns passively, even during times when I work less.
Do you ever get tired of blogging after all these years?
Honestly, no, and I think that surprises some people. Of course, I have off days like anyone else, but blogging still feels exciting to me. The topics I write about have grown and evolved right along with me, and I love that I can share what I’m learning in real time. If anything, blogging has given me more freedom and purpose as time goes on. That said, I also don’t force myself to publish just for the sake of it. Taking breaks, switching things up, and focusing on quality over quantity keeps things fun over the long term.
Do you have set work hours or a routine you follow?
Not really – at least not in the traditional sense. I work when my daughter is at school, and I rarely work when she’s awake and home. Some weeks, that’s 25 hours; other weeks, it might be 2 hours. I’ve found that flexibility works best for me right now. I do try to group my work into focused blocks – so I’m either writing, planning, or catching up on admin stuff, but not constantly bouncing between them.
What do you do when you feel unmotivated or creatively stuck?
If I’m not feeling it, I don’t force it. Sometimes I go outside, play with my daughter, take the boat out, or find something else to do. The best ideas usually come when I’m not trying. I also keep a long list of blog post ideas so that if I’m having a slow week, I can pick something off the list instead of starting from scratch. And if I really need a break, I take one. I’d rather step away for a day and come back recharged than just stare at my screen.
How do you connect to the internet when you travel so much?
I’m currently pretty simple when it comes to the internet. I just use Wi-Fi at home (or hotel or Airbnb), or I connect to my phone’s hotspot. If there’s no Wi-Fi available, then I typically try to plan for that in advance and work ahead, knowing I won’t get any work done during the actual trip. I have thought about getting Starlink, but for now, I prefer to just take a forced break from working when the chance comes up.
Day in the Life of a Blogger – Summary
I hope you enjoyed my article about what my day looks like as a full-time business owner and parent.
So, that’s a look at what my life looks like right now.
It’s simple. Slow. Intentional. It’s filled with boat rides, blog posts, preschool drop-offs, family dinners, and days when I get absolutely nothing done. It’s real. It’s fulfilling. It’s what I used to dream about when I was working full-time and wondering if there was a better way.
I’m not perfect, and there are many things I definitely still need to work on. But, I’m getting there!
I hope this glimpse into my life reminds you that your version of success doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. You can build something flexible. You can work less. You can spend more time with your family. You can live a little slower. You really can create a life that feels good to wake up to.
I’d love to hear from you – what does your ideal day look like? Do you have any questions about working from home, parenting, or building a flexible lifestyle like this? Leave a comment below and let me know!
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